sgtdraino wrote:Not literally resetting time, but recreating a world similar to the way it was 14 years ago, complete with people who think it really is 14 years ago. It seems to me that this is what the original episodes 25 and 26 taught us: That Shinji can literally have any reality that he wants. It seems to me that this is also why Gendo wanted to be at the center of Instrumentality, that this would be his means to get Yui back.
No, it taught us that your perception of your situation is a state of mind, and that you have the power to change that if you so choose. See the bit about rainy days and such.
And again, why do you think the Seeds can even do that, let alone Shinji? Nothing in the show indicates that sort of reality manipulation is possible. Past that the notion that Shinji would subconsciously create a world with Eva in it doesn't make any sense at all, since that's the thing he hates more than anything. If he was gonna do something subconsciously we'd get a world like the one depicted in 26.
Instrumentality is not yet complete. As has been stated previously, other people have yet to return to their physical forms, but they still can. What we see at the end of EoE is still in a state of flux.
Not in the way you're describing. The options are stay in the sea or come out, that's it. That's what Rei told us, so that's how it is. Don't read more into it than is already there.