ElMariachi wrote:
Maybe Asuka wanted Misato to immediately tell Shinji what did he did wrong and why they put the DSS Choker on him, and Misato refused, wanting to go step by step by fear that it will completely destroy him mentally if they tell him the truth all at once.
Looks like Asuka was right, as even Kaworu opted for blunt honestly in showing to Shinji how much he screwed up, and besides there is no "gentle" to tell to someone "your actions led to the anihilation of almost all the remaining biosphere, mankind included"!
I come back on what I said about Asuka's subtle glare to Misato in the scene where she broke security glass.
I have a new theory : what if WILLE actually did salvaged Rei from EVA-01, but are keeping this secret to Shinji?
Think about it : Shinji asks about Rei, Asuka respond that she doesn't know and that "the world doesn't have time to cater to his ego". But what is the meaning behind this phrase? How knowing is Rei is alive relates to the world? Shinji didn't asked to dismantle EVA-01 and sacrifice their power source to look for Rei, just "is she fine?".
More importantly, just after that Asuka supposedly glared at Misato and gives her the "Isn't that right, Captain Katsuragi?" line, and if the theory that she has an hidden meaning behind it, that could be a caution to "play along" with her.
And now why didn't they say him that they rescued Rei? Simple : if it's like in NGE and she still have the soul of Lilith(I don't remember if it was said or hinted in NTE), then she's as much of a potential Trigger for an Impact/Instrumentality than Shinji and as to be kept in custody, and due to her special nature will surely be bound to have a lot of experimentations done on her!
An seeing as how Shinji and Rei tends and are capable to do completely crazy and reckless stuff to protect or save one each other and that they don't have any idea of the extent of their powers(or even if Shinji is fully human), WILLE must have though that the best way to keep them under control would be that they believe that the other is dead. Maybe they told Rei the same thing, that Shinji wasn't found in the entry plug and sacrificed his life to save her.
Of course in Shinji's case WILLE probably didn't count that Gendo would sent so quickly his own Rei clone to fetch him away...