Asuka is also a huge poseur and often a wuss, although she counteracts her emotional cowardice with a certain amount of suicidal elan; she may not be a lackey, but she's enough of an ass-kisser to Kaji that one feels that this is more due to Kaji doing his own work than any achievement of hers.
The difference between the two characters is that
Bagheera wrote:She's never done this. She lusted after Kaji because she thought doing so would make her a legitimate adult, but she never went after anyone as a power play (probably because, at least in he own mind, she didn't need to -- she was already at the top of the heap. She just wanted other people to recognize it).
Tosh. Adulthood is power, something which is unambiguous in both shows: the difference is that SKU chooses to indulge some degree of foolish/childish heroism (as a greater power, that is), while NGE values survival over purity. To Asuka, adulthood is specifically the power to be free of her humiliating and miserable life. Her yuu aa nanba waan delusions are a defense mechanism she has built up to elevate herself from the shitheap: a synthetic adulthood, if you like, to give her the power her age does not. After it fails her, she is still entirely willing to jump to other delusions ("mommy will always love you") for protection.
I meant Kaji. Although something of an argument could be made that Akio is not exactly an antagonist, since