It won’t be.
Despite the tons of fan service in it, Anno’s body of work is very respective and responsible in regards to the treatment of female characters. The women in his always have a strong sense of sense and if they don’t - Ritsuko/the lead character in Shiki-Jitsu/ - it’s always handled delicately. The heroes of the Rebuild film are almost all women.
Shinji repeating the actions of his father and trying to control/own Rei is not something I see being played in the film. Especially not if they want to go for a happy ending. That little ribbon tie is probably going to be a real effective emotional moment for both of them.