EGF's House of Lonely Hearts

[KingXanaduu]

^

I'll drink to that Princess.

To being single!

[Sailor Star Dust]

If you had a bad breakup, it's honestly just best to move on from that situation, anyway.

[r1cepurin]

*snip*

[Sailor Star Dust]

I'm definitely thankful that my first actual relationship (some dating in the past, but never really went anywhere) was a long distance online relationship (1,886 miles apart, depending where I lived at the time) with my best friend. We've had bumps along the way due to life being life, but I couldn't be happier since the almost 3 years ago when I've moved in with him.

In the meantime of living apart, we visited as we could, which helped, too.

[Catamari]

*snip*

[r1cepurin]

*snebbidy snab*

[Guy Nacks]

Well, in any case, distance is something that's about to become way less of a roadblock for me with someone I've had feelings for for a long time, though it doesn't necessarily mean any positive romantic developments.

All you people who are happy together really need to take stock of what you have and not take it for granted. I'm not saying that you don't; just something to keep in the back of your minds.

[Sailor Star Dust]

All you people who are happy together really need to take stock of what you have and not take it for granted.

Couldn't agree with you more. In general, many people forget that.

[Ieyasu]

My 8 yr relationship has steadily becoming more and more platonic.

While a part of me is cool with that because reasons, it really, REALLY sucks to have the one person you wanna be with slowly relegate you to buddy status because your changing morphology don't do it for them no more. I kinda wanted to get married and emigrate. I guess that ain't happenin' no more.

Not saying that's wrong. It just sucks.

[Ispellnogood]

Thank god I’m not a member of this sad house.

I’ve never been alone since my darling with a beautiful and exotic name become part of my love life.

Like all relationships there’s ups and downs.

Even when we take a break and see other people, we always end up back together.

It’s destiny in the truest form.




Righthandia, you’re one ugly bitch when I give you eyeballs and make you talk.
But baby lets face it we are one.





But seriously I’ve never really suffered too much from the lonelies. I think it’s because I’m quite sure of my hotness. The kind of hotness that leans toward the cute/pretty boy side. I’m counting on it staying that way, even as I fall into inevitable decline of old age.

[Ari]

gaaaahhh. not exactly fitting but related. a friend of mine asked me out but i'm not really attracted to them. so like?? i'll go on dates just to try it out but i can't really see myself in a relationship

and also, like i have never really been "in love" with someone or even had a crush.. except for like the kind where you just really want to be close friends. i guess i've never been a romantic person?

[Alaska Slim]

Sora deserved to be with Matt. It's an end of an era for m--Tai.

[Xeroko]

No luck dating anyone since i stopped seeing that guy, im pretty peeved and frustrated tbh

[Chuckman]

I was doing my OkCupid profile and this question came up.

[Bryan]

^ Ah yes, the pantheism deal breaker question. Honestly though, that's what I love about okcupid, enough random questions that 1 of them might perfectly describe your weirdness.

[honsou]

Ah OkCupid questions...that's what happens when you just let everyone write a question and hope for the best

[Rosenakahara]

So im feeling very lonely and very shit recently, telling myself i don't need a gf right now doesn't help because i do but my personality really doesn't mesh well with others.

Haven't been taking care of myself enough recently and im getting a bit of chub plus a ton of spots.
This is not fun in any way.

[Tankred]

So im feeling very lonely and very shit recently, telling myself i don't need a gf right now doesn't help because i do but my personality really doesn't mesh well with others.

Haven't been taking care of myself enough recently and im getting a bit of chub

I have that problem sometimes, I just down beer and listen to synth to forget it.

[Monk Ed]

I've taken a huge step forward on OkCupid by finally actually using the site -- messaging and "like"-ing people.

It all began when, one day, after some 10 months of not even looking at the site, I finally got the courage to get back into looking at the matches I kept getting emailed, and by chance I found one I actually wanted to talk to: someone not just into anime and video games, but many of the same as I am. Her profile was definitely written in my "native language" with such message-me-if lines as "you want to 1-v-1 in SSB4 (no Brawl plz)" and "you are a pilot and want to be my boyfriend. Kyun kyun, motherfucker! :P".

She never responded to my message despite the passage of several days and her having visited the site over that time, so I take it she's just not into me, but just knowing that there are people on the site who check that many of my personal boxes was encouraging, because she can't be the only one. I drastically altered my profile to be way more open (that is, putting my love of anime and video games front and center instead of being so shy about it), inspired by hers, and I hope someone who likes mine as much as I like theirs is receptive to my next attempt.

Even though I have yet to meet anyone or even to have an interaction over the site just yet, I feel so much more content with my life right now after this experience. The first time doing anything new and frightening, especially in the social arena, is always extremely hard for me; I'd spent a long time just wallowing in my loneliness without really taking steps to improve the situation, especially considering the stigma associated with online dating (despite the increasing number of successful couples I know of who met through OKC in particular, including people who are now married). Now that I've finally taken this critical step, who knows, before long I might go on the first date of my life.

[Shinoyami65]

So im feeling very lonely and very shit recently, telling myself i don't need a gf right now doesn't help because i do but my personality really doesn't mesh well with others.

Haven't been taking care of myself enough recently and im getting a bit of chub plus a ton of spots.
This is not fun in any way.

I'd recommend exercising more. It relieves stress, at the very least. When I'm on the last stretch of a 10 or 20km run and almost dying, I don't have to think about the futility of the quest for love.