Mr. Tines wrote:Incisivis wrote:but what would Shinji give this theoretical "her" in return?
Maternal fulfillment without childbirth, sleepless nights and nappy changes.
You're short selling Shinchan: he's a near prodigy with his cello, can handle all the domestic and maternal job's with skill and without complaint; he's great at cooking and cleaning, and looks lovely in a apron, or dress...Besides until he was finally broken Shinji seems to be the most levelheaded of the kids, and if he could get past his hedgehog shell, he'd make a great confidant...
Mr. Tines wrote:BattleMonkey wrote:Who says it was Shinji who sucked at kissing
Asuka seemed to be less than impressed.
She seemed to be upset or disappointed in the fact Shinji failed to take the initiative...It's rather strange, what Asuka wants’ in Shinji is quite ambiguous and contradictory at times: She does wasn’t him to folow her and treat her as a superior, that's certainly what she was aiming for in 8 & 9...And she certainly didn't hesitate to unnecessarily force him in drag, and establish some sort of dominance over him... But She also wants him to be assertive, and becomes upset that he never moves to show affection for her or comfort her...She also doesn’t seem to care much for his domestic skills
Asuka's contradictory actions and desires towards Shinji probably played a good role in their dysfunctional relation.
Incisivis wrote:Shinji with Kaworu? Nope.
And honestly I think Kaworu's role in the narrative is to represent the "ideal" world which must be killed to accept the "real" world, as a sort of prelude to Shinji's choice in EoE...
Why wouldn't Shinji wasn’t to rest in an ideal relation, especially if it was just offered to him? He really did seem to get better during his time with Kaworu, I can't see anyone else who could do more for his Maslow needs. Shinchan really would have benefited if Kaworu had stayed longer, perhaps a month or so would have been enough to mend his mind ... Granted the betrayal and forced homicide finally broke Shinji, and If Kaworu had been around longer and had come to be a integral part of Shinji's life, he may well have a breakdown akin to that in preinsturmentality, or he might just engage in denial and refuse to start the Eva.
Incisivis wrote:We don't get much of a look into Kaworu's personality to determine what kind of a long-term relation he and Shinji could possibly have.
Yes, I guess that's true, Kaworu didn't have near as much development as any of the other pilots, but Webuild's giving him more time so that should be fine this time around. Although the blanks in Kawou's personality actualy help in writing Shonen-ai as the authors realy can fill the gaps with what ever they like. Still by what we see, Anime Kaworu semed to be a highly maternal figure who expresed unconditional love towards Shinji, and in their time worked to aid Shinji emotionaly...It realy seems like he'd be some sort of patient guardian angel for Shinchan.
Evil Manga Kaworu's kind of a diffrent story though, he didn't seem to be as altruistic in dealing with Shinji. The actions towards Shinji semed to be rather self serving, and he certanly did seem to take a more carnal aproach to Shinji, he'd probably try to have sex with him if he thought it a good way to relive the experience with Armisael...Still Shinji does want afection from others, and he'd surely acept it in any form, likely without the whole tsundere element from the manga.
Timstuff wrote:Mr. Tines wrote:If we want an idea of what Asuka would be like at the same sort of distance into the future, I'd look no further than Ritsuko -- lightly neurotic, married to a technical job, taking a little bit of short lived solace on the side (same handwaving implied).
I don't know... I've always thought Misato was a more likely example of how Asuka might end up as an adult.
Is there any reason why she couldn't grow up as an blend of those two, I do certainly see the parallels she has with Ritsuko though, Asuka chasing after Kaji when he clearly didn't have any interest seems like a more childish version of Ritsuko's service towards Gendo, even though she really knew he cared nothing for her...of course she finally had enough and took vengeance upon him, but that seems Asuka enough... Though would this make Shinji a male Maya?
Mr. Tines wrote:would be better off with a girl who is strongly maternal, and thus would be supportive and generally hold his act together for him.
That sound's like Anime
FemKaworu, really I think veh was the most "maternal" of all the pilots.
And we need more pictures of Shinji being part of a happy family...Even if the kids tend to come out to cloneish.