Ringworm128 wrote:Said this in another thread but her negative behavior tends to get over exaggerated to an extreme degree. Her "abuse" of Shinji basically amounts to calling him a dumb wuss a few times when she's angry. If anything she's very sociable considering her past and she is able to communicate politely enough with Shinji and even form a friendship with Hikari.

Well but that's how it works.Like yes she is sociable but the problem sometimes she becomes nice and most of the times we know she either creates her own thoughts gets angry or abuse him in a nice tone.Like think about the amounts of bad wording she does which I will not blame but I know what is the effect.note my dzzthinks one explanation.again knowing her bits will not work(episode 17)she still gave(nah stopped after 15 or maybe 16,and started pouring her anger) them.But I know she traumatized so it's my bad in this post.
She can be sociable but again she becomes what we know in seconds.What that does is immediately triggers his fear of rejection.Her angered attempts can do that easily.tbh.So that simply pinches him.While rest is his wish(well he is passive and I can't deny that).
So it's actually very hard to blame anyone.

And sorry if I called that if i projected her as abuser.That is my first comment and umm it is not well written,looks like I have to rewrite it.Becauee I was going to write this on another post where Shinji was being justified.And that's why so much anger here.
I will rewrite.