ChrisTamv wrote:That's not the case at all though. Those are relatively superficial parallels, sure, but you glossed over the most important ones by far. When Gendo lost Yui he had committed no crimes, nor did he have any bad intentions we know of. He was in a horrible mental state and perhaps hated people like many people who suffer from such mental issues do, but he wasn't a bad person, and was also much, much younger. It all happened when he lost Yui, when instead of grieving and eventually trying to stand up again to see what he can do better in the future, which is the mature behavior 3.0+1.0 actually preaches for, he raged out, rejected reality by trying to revive her through Rei and the Human Instrumentality Project (he wasn't even aware of its existence before this point!), and then closes himself up completely. And how does Shinji react to the (near) losses of Asuka, Rei II, and Kaworu? He does nothing but throw a destructive fit when Asuka is killed, he rejects the fate of the entire world and of his own self just and only to bring back Rei II, and then he completely gives up after Kaworu's death and closes himself up. Shinji and Gendo are similar down to the sequence in which they reacted to tragedies, at a point in their lives when they already were very similar and had both even made an effort to heal.
So yes, the parallels drawn between Shinji and Gendo are more than substantial and valid.
Gendo had ten fucking years to try to get over Yui. He refused and instead manipulated, brainwashed and tortured his children for his own goals that are to exterminate the entire planet, and also murdered everyone that stand in his way, and then 14 more years passed, and he doubled down on it, also adding another murder to his list just to spite his son while he was at it.
Shinji had half a day at most to "learn" grief between Asuka's injuries and Rei being eaten by Zeruel, and the story expects me to equal him to his father when he decides to give his everything to save her because he didn't know that his giant robot was rigged from the start to shit out an apocalypse if he pushed it too far, as planed by... you guessed it, Gendo.
Then he was tricked to be abducted and even more mentally tortured to insanity so he would lose his mind and cause Kaworu's death, as planned by... you guessed it, Gendo.
Every bad things that happened to Shinji was when Gendo was around, by Gendo's own plans. All of the times Shinji reacted similarly to Gendo were because of Gendo's actions and engineered by Gendo to manipulate his son. All of Shinji's genuinely happy moments were when Gendo wasn't around.
Gendo is a fucking monster, a scourge, an abusive psychopathic manchild that completely ruined the life of his children for his own selfish desires while knowing full well what he was doing the whole time without even blinking even when Fuyutsuki directly confronted him about it. Shinji's story should be to learn to give up on his father, that he's just rotten to the core and that unfortunately it happens and that he should instead live with the people who truly care for him, instead of being pushed to give him a fucking pat the back and having the movie pulling out a "he'S onlY MisUNdErstOOD ANd PEopLE DOn'T geT HIs Pain" and that all it take is for someone to finally do it so he could had a completely change of heart, while Shinji apologize for not doing exactly that sooner.
This all happens because Anno is unable to not have his self-insert being cajoled and the way Gendo's arc is resolved is a fucking insult to every abused children in the world.
No, what I'm saying is that every moments of Shinji's "wrongdoing" were due to circumstances where everything is so absurdly staked against him (often by Gendo's design) that there are no realistic ways for anyone to react differently unless they are a living saint or we go into fourth-wall breaking lampshade handing where he comments about how he saw how it goes in movies while winking at the camera, and then expects me to consider his wrongdoings as entirely his fault and equivalent of the monster who planned for it to happen.
ChrisTamv wrote:One of the reasons why the 3.0+1.0 ending is in fact very thematically coherent with both Rebuild's and the original's messaging is because, by definition, it is not an escapist ending.
Intentions are what matter here, and Shinji, after spending almost an hour of runtime doing exactly the opposite of what an escapist would do already, has set his mind on sacrificing his own life so that everyone else can live in a better place. This is crucial. Shinji isn't "burning all the bridges he has" in the slightest; he's just trying to get everyone out of Unit 01 and Unit 13 and say his final goodbye to them because he knows he's going to permanently go down with these Evas when he makes his wish. A wish that by the way won't just "erase all his mistakes", but just the Evas from that point onwards, a symbol of escapism, and not the deaths that did not directly happen due to the Ikpacts (or arguably any death at all depending on your specific interpretation of the ending).
So, the fact that Yui and Gendo stepped in at the last moment to take Shinji's place in the sacrifice was, as shown, a completely unexpected event. Shinji did not plan beyond this point, so calling this "escapism" when everything that happened after this point wasn't planned or in his control is utterly nonsensical. He didn't decide where to end up, or with whom (which alone invalidate the "escapism" argument), and again, depending on your specific interpretation of the ending, he may not have ended up in another universe and his relationship with Mari in the end is not romantic in nature.
I said that the story was escapist, not the character.
Shinji accepts to die for his sins, and is rewarded by fixing everything and being allowed to live in another world free of the consequences of his previous actions, that is an escapist ending.
No, Kaji explicitly asks him about his hobbies. And not knowing what you want to do in the future at 14 years old is frankly perfectly normal.