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Princess Asuka · Postby **Princess Asuka** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 12:22 am

A friend of mine accused me of stringing him along because I said I'm lonely I need you right now, I just wanted a friends comfort because I had a bad day. But he blows things out of porportion. :irked:

Postby **Mr. Tines** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 1:34 am

You'll have to tell him that he's friendzoned in so many words.

Princess Asuka · Postby **Princess Asuka** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 11:31 am

Mr. Tines wrote:You'll have to tell him that he's friendzoned in so many words.

I think he knows that already. -o-;

And after me and friends made my own Sailor Moon forum due to a certain one I've mentioned being controlled by a female admin. She promotes the behavior of public shaming of members by red tagging them aka changing their avatar to what they did wrong after repeated warnings. She will also get very stalkerish in her obsession with crediting fanartists, if it's a tumblr repost, it won't do it must be the original source. If you don't post a link she'll pm you about it. And now she's getting all pissed and saying you must use reverse image search on google. I at least try and credit the artists, but this is going to the extremes since certain phones can't do reverse image search from google.

Even though I have my own forum, I hope they take this bitch out of power just for the sake of others.

She even locked a leaving thread to create drama, I'm sorry but nobody likes a bitchy admin whose a control freak and a bully that plays obvious favorites and picks on other members.

Chuckman · Postby **Chuckman** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 12:03 pm

Make sure things are clear. Don't assume people understand things the way that you do.

The friendzone is (mostly) fedora bullshit, but people would be better off being loud and clear with each other about their intentions.

Princess Asuka · Postby **Princess Asuka** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 12:13 pm

Chuckman wrote:Make sure things are clear. Don't assume people understand things the way that you do.

The friendzone is (mostly) fedora bullshit, but people would be better off being loud and clear with each other about their intentions.

He's always been in the friendzone. And I seem to have others interested in me.

I'm only 22, I have a life to explore, I'd rather explain it then lose a friend.

But, I've had to friendzone people. It sucks.

Chuckman · Postby **Chuckman** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 12:32 pm

I hope by "friendzone people" you mean make it clear, as in said it, that you are only interested in friendship.

Princess Asuka · Postby **Princess Asuka** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 2:29 pm

Chuckman wrote:I hope by "friendzone people" you mean make it clear, as in said it, that you are only interested in friendship.

I did.

supershinjiasukashipper · Postby **supershinjiasukashipper** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 3:18 pm

Well I have finally gotten sick of my landlady. She was nice last year when I had my attempted suicide but in the last 3 or 4 months she has gotten verbally abusive. Now to clarify, she isn't cussing at me but she makes demeaning comments about me and my life. Honestly, I'm sick of it and I am looking for a place to move but since I make very little money its hard to find a place I can afford. I dunno if I will be able to endure her abuse much longer either, its been making me physically sick trying to not say anything back to her cause it would achieve nothing. :(

By the way does stress cause peptic ulcers or is that an urban legend?

heavytread · Postby **heavytread** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 4:18 pm

Why do I care about what others think about me? I honestly don't know. I know I'd be a lot happier if I didn't care. It's a huge problem for me in just about everything I do. Keeps me from being able to make friends or even just holding out a normal conversation.
Sometimes, I hate hate my life but surprisingly not now :lol:

Chuckman · Postby **Chuckman** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 4:52 pm

heavytread wrote:Why do I care about what others think about me? I honestly don't know

Because you are fourteen.

supershinjiasukashipper · Postby **supershinjiasukashipper** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:02 pm

I didn't give a crap about what people thought of me when I was 14.

heavytread · Postby **heavytread** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:07 pm

Chuckman wrote:Because you are fourteen.

ok that works for 14, but what about every other point in life?

Postby **pwhodges** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:10 pm

heavytread wrote:Why do I care about what others think about me?

It's because we are a social species, and so the way we interact with each other is fundamental to our individual natures.

supershinjiasukashipper · Postby **supershinjiasukashipper** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:26 pm

That's the feel good answer. But the truth is people who care about what others think of them do it because of some weakness on their own part. (Not trying to sound critical.)

Its just a fact. The homely admire the beautiful. The weak admire the strong. And the not so smart admire anything. Admiration leads to a desire of emulation which leads to people desiring vindication from others. And then there are people who do not care what others think. They are either very successful or at the very least they live feeling vindicated to stay true to yourself. That's really all that matters, be who you are no matter what that is. Some people will hate you for it, but then again some people will like you and that will be a genuine thing rather than an empty like gained by following the crowd.

Gosh darn, I should become a freaking life coach!!!

delispin25 · Postby **delispin25** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:44 pm

heavytread wrote:Why do I care about what others think about me? I honestly don't know. I know I'd be a lot happier if I didn't care. It's a huge problem for me in just about everything I do. Keeps me from being able to make friends or even just holding out a normal conversation.
Sometimes, I hate hate my life but surprisingly not now

I used to care what people thought about me until mid way through grade 11. Chances are if someone thinks you're a faggot, so will you, so it shouldn't matter what they think about you, that's just how I see it though. Don't worry about having normal conversations, it'll get easier for you as you get older and meet like minded people.

Aiko Heiwa · Postby **Aiko Heiwa** » Sun Jun 08, 2014 9:03 pm

stupid power was out from like 12:30pm until 9:10 or so this evening

grrr :irked:

ChaddyManPrime · Postby **ChaddyManPrime** » Mon Jun 09, 2014 2:01 am

^
Hopefully it wasn't too hot Good Mam

Oh God I'm so tired, we made good money but still I'm way past exhausted. Way too many people at the Comic Con, oh and Stan Lees a dick.

The price gouging was fucking insane, almost caved a dude's face in, got the authorities instead, turns out it was a misunderstanding so I was lucky -o-;

AngelNo13Bardiel · Postby **AngelNo13Bardiel** » Mon Jun 09, 2014 3:58 am

heavytread wrote:Why do I care about what others think about me?

I can honestly admit that I've never had this problem. At not one point in my life that I can remember have I ever given a damn about others' opinions about me, only mine ever mattered.

What can I say, I have an unscrappable faith.

Squigsquasher · Postby **Squigsquasher** » Mon Jun 09, 2014 4:07 am

I have dreadful hay fever at the moment. I can barely breathe through my nose and my eyes are varying from"mildly itchy" to "completely pink and in constant agony".

It's not much fun.

ChaddyManPrime · Postby **ChaddyManPrime** » Mon Jun 09, 2014 4:19 am

^
Take a couple pieces of ice and get them wet, close your eyes and place the ice on your eyes.

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