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Postby xanderkh » Thu Jun 18, 2015 9:55 pm

^

I'll drink to that Princess. :cheers:

To being single! :lol:
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Postby Sailor Star Dust » Thu Jun 18, 2015 10:30 pm

If you had a bad breakup, it's honestly just best to move on from that situation, anyway.
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Postby r1cepurin » Fri Jun 19, 2015 4:44 pm

*snip*
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Postby Sailor Star Dust » Fri Jun 19, 2015 8:16 pm

I'm definitely thankful that my first actual relationship (some dating in the past, but never really went anywhere) was a long distance online relationship (1,886 miles apart, depending where I lived at the time) with my best friend. We've had bumps along the way due to life being life, but I couldn't be happier since the almost 3 years ago when I've moved in with him.

In the meantime of living apart, we visited as we could, which helped, too.
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Postby Catamari » Fri Jun 19, 2015 8:40 pm

*snip*
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Postby r1cepurin » Fri Jun 19, 2015 8:58 pm

*snebbidy snab*
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Postby Guy Nacks » Fri Jun 19, 2015 9:15 pm

:lurk:

Well, in any case, distance is something that's about to become way less of a roadblock for me with someone I've had feelings for for a long time, though it doesn't necessarily mean any positive romantic developments.

All you people who are happy together really need to take stock of what you have and not take it for granted. I'm not saying that you don't; just something to keep in the back of your minds.
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Postby Sailor Star Dust » Fri Jun 19, 2015 11:26 pm

View Original PostGuy Nacks wrote:All you people who are happy together really need to take stock of what you have and not take it for granted.


Couldn't agree with you more. In general, many people forget that.
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Postby Ieyasu » Sat Jun 20, 2015 4:30 am

My 8 yr relationship has steadily becoming more and more platonic.

While a part of me is cool with that because reasons, it really, REALLY sucks to have the one person you wanna be with slowly relegate you to buddy status because your changing morphology don't do it for them no more. I kinda wanted to get married and emigrate. I guess that ain't happenin' no more.

Not saying that's wrong. It just sucks.
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Postby Ispellnogood » Tue Jun 23, 2015 10:47 am

Thank god I’m not a member of this sad house.

I’ve never been alone since my darling with a beautiful and exotic name become part of my love life.

Like all relationships there’s ups and downs.

Even when we take a break and see other people, we always end up back together.

It’s destiny in the truest form.




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But seriously I’ve never really suffered too much from the lonelies. I think it’s because I’m quite sure of my hotness. The kind of hotness that leans toward the cute/pretty boy side. I’m counting on it staying that way, even as I fall into inevitable decline of old age.

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Postby Ari » Tue Jun 23, 2015 11:10 pm

gaaaahhh. not exactly fitting but related. a friend of mine asked me out but i'm not really attracted to them. so like?? i'll go on dates just to try it out but i can't really see myself in a relationship

and also, like i have never really been "in love" with someone or even had a crush.. except for like the kind where you just really want to be close friends. i guess i've never been a romantic person?

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Postby Alaska Slim » Wed Jun 24, 2015 12:13 am

Sora deserved to be with Matt. It's an end of an era for m--Tai.
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Postby Xeroko » Wed Jun 24, 2015 11:20 am

No luck dating anyone since i stopped seeing that guy, im pretty peeved and frustrated tbh
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Postby Chuckman » Wed Jun 24, 2015 10:44 pm

I was doing my OkCupid profile and this question came up.

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Postby Bryan » Mon Jul 13, 2015 4:31 am

^ Ah yes, the pantheism deal breaker question. Honestly though, that's what I love about okcupid, enough random questions that 1 of them might perfectly describe your weirdness.

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Postby honsou » Mon Jul 13, 2015 9:31 am

Ah OkCupid questions...that's what happens when you just let everyone write a question and hope for the best
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Postby Rosenakahara » Sat Jul 18, 2015 6:18 pm

So im feeling very lonely and very shit recently, telling myself i don't need a gf right now doesn't help because i do but my personality really doesn't mesh well with others.

Haven't been taking care of myself enough recently and im getting a bit of chub plus a ton of spots.
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Postby Tankred » Sat Jul 18, 2015 7:09 pm

View Original PostRosenakahara wrote:So im feeling very lonely and very shit recently, telling myself i don't need a gf right now doesn't help because i do but my personality really doesn't mesh well with others.

Haven't been taking care of myself enough recently and im getting a bit of chub



I have that problem sometimes, I just down beer and listen to synth to forget it.

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Postby Monk Ed » Mon Jul 20, 2015 1:16 am

I've taken a huge step forward on OkCupid by finally actually using the site -- messaging and "like"-ing people.

It all began when, one day, after some 10 months of not even looking at the site, I finally got the courage to get back into looking at the matches I kept getting emailed, and by chance I found one I actually wanted to talk to: someone not just into anime and video games, but many of the same as I am. Her profile was definitely written in my "native language" with such message-me-if lines as "you want to 1-v-1 in SSB4 (no Brawl plz)" and "you are a pilot and want to be my boyfriend. Kyun kyun, motherfucker! :P".

She never responded to my message despite the passage of several days and her having visited the site over that time, so I take it she's just not into me, but just knowing that there are people on the site who check that many of my personal boxes was encouraging, because she can't be the only one. I drastically altered my profile to be way more open (that is, putting my love of anime and video games front and center instead of being so shy about it), inspired by hers, and I hope someone who likes mine as much as I like theirs is receptive to my next attempt. :kaos_victory:

Even though I have yet to meet anyone or even to have an interaction over the site just yet, I feel so much more content with my life right now after this experience. The first time doing anything new and frightening, especially in the social arena, is always extremely hard for me; I'd spent a long time just wallowing in my loneliness without really taking steps to improve the situation, especially considering the stigma associated with online dating (despite the increasing number of successful couples I know of who met through OKC in particular, including people who are now married). Now that I've finally taken this critical step, who knows, before long I might go on the first date of my life. :lol:
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Postby Shinoyami65 » Mon Jul 20, 2015 6:23 am

View Original PostRosenakahara wrote:So im feeling very lonely and very shit recently, telling myself i don't need a gf right now doesn't help because i do but my personality really doesn't mesh well with others.

Haven't been taking care of myself enough recently and im getting a bit of chub plus a ton of spots.
This is not fun in any way.


I'd recommend exercising more. It relieves stress, at the very least. When I'm on the last stretch of a 10 or 20km run and almost dying, I don't have to think about the futility of the quest for love.
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