EGF's House of Lonely Hearts
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Anywhere can be paradise as long as you have the will to live. After all, you are alive, so you will always have the chance to be happy.
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Can't get much more straightforward than that.
Though, Gob still might look good in a cocktail dress.
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Re: EGF's House of Lonely Hearts
So yesterday was Valentine's Day. Well, my ex boyfriend messaged me on facebook to wish me a happy Valentine's Day. After talking for awhile he told me that he was still sorta in love with me and that he has a crush. So, me and the guy I've been talking to had a fight about this and we almost broke up over it. Plus, some of my friends in our group chat started attacking me too. -_- Any advice on how to handle this situation with my ex whom I still have some feelings for? Also, next year for Valentine's Day I'm gonna pamper myself and be my own Valentine. <3
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Princess Asuka wrote:So yesterday was Valentine's Day. Well, my ex boyfriend messaged me on facebook to wish me a happy Valentine's Day. After talking for awhile he told me that he was still sorta in love with me and that he has a crush. So, me and the guy I've been talking to had a fight about this and we almost broke up over it. Plus, some of my friends in our group chat started attacking me too. -_- Any advice on how to handle this situation with my ex whom I still have some feelings for? Also, next year for Valentine's Day I'm gonna pamper myself and be my own Valentine. <3
This is the cheater, I take it?
Obviously, how you respond should be based on how you feel about him. If you feel that you can’t trust him to not cheat again, don’t take him back as a romantic partner. Perhaps as a friend, or not at all. Choose what you feel is best for you.
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Princess Asuka wrote:So yesterday was Valentine's Day. Well, my ex boyfriend messaged me on facebook to wish me a happy Valentine's Day. After talking for awhile he told me that he was still sorta in love with me and that he has a crush. So, me and the guy I've been talking to had a fight about this and we almost broke up over it. Plus, some of my friends in our group chat started attacking me too. -_- Any advice on how to handle this situation with my ex whom I still have some feelings for? Also, next year for Valentine's Day I'm gonna pamper myself and be my own Valentine. <3
If this the cheater the one who raped your best friend run a mile, if its the one your still friends with don't go there because he could cheat on you again. Also I think you should review your friendships as they don't sound very positive friendships as people who claim to be your friends should not be attacking you.
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I fear this is a consequence of being part of the "share everything" generation, and being uncritical in your choice of friends. Sometimes taking care to keep a little privacy can help avoid such situations.
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silvermoonlight wrote:If this the cheater the one who raped your best friend run a mile, if its the one your still friends with don't go there because he could cheat on you again. Also I think you should review your friendships as they don't sound like very positive friendships as people who claim to be your friends should not be attacking you.
That asshole who might've raped my friend is gone. He moved to either Texas or Florida and I haven't heard from him in three years and I don't plan on finding him again cause I hate his fucking guts. But, yes the guy who has a crush on me and is sorta in love with me is my friend the guy who cheated on me. To be honest, I think if I did get back together I kinda doubt he would cheat again. As for my friends, it's not really attacking me it's more like tough love.
"Winds in the east, Mist coming in, Like something is brewing, About to begin. Can't put my finger on, What lies in store, But, I feel what's to happen, All happened before..." From Mary Poppins
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"We fall in love, our hearts may break, we lose sleep longing for someone, but that's how we know we're alive." Usagi Tsukino from the Sailor Moon S movie.
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"Anta Baka?!" Asuka Langley Soryu
"We fall in love, our hearts may break, we lose sleep longing for someone, but that's how we know we're alive." Usagi Tsukino from the Sailor Moon S movie.
"I'm not a nerd, I'm a specialist!!" Sousuke Sagara from Full Metal Panic.
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If he's saying that he's still in love with you but cheated on you anyway, he's really probably not, and it's best not to waste your time with him or anyone else like him. You can take it from me because I manipulate women emotionally on a regular basis and I say to this them without exception -- all of the time. Often with exes and I'd say it works somewhere near 60% of the time. I travel quite a bit, so if I'm in Vienna, Milan, Bucharest etc. I will call on former lovers/girlfriends with the exact same pickup line and all of a sudden we're back on the same relationship roller-coaster. He's probably playing you. Take it from the devil himself.
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Re: EGF's House of Lonely Hearts
I once took somebody back after being cheated on. It was nice for a time.
SPOILER: Show
She cheated again.
I'd say it's not worth it. I'd go with the person who's given evidence of being trustworthy instead of the person who's proven themselves untrustworthy. Also, not remain friends with ex's.
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ran1 wrote:If he's saying that he's still in love with you but cheated on you anyway, he's really probably not, and it's best not to waste your time with him or anyone else like him. You can take it from me because I manipulate women emotionally on a regular basis and I say to this them without exception -- all of the time. Often with exes and I'd say it works somewhere near 60% of the time. I travel quite a bit, so if I'm in Vienna, Milan, Bucharest etc. I will call on former lovers/girlfriends with the exact same pickup line and all of a sudden we're back on the same relationship roller-coaster. He's probably playing you. Take it from the devil himself.
... why are you using present tense?
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Presumably to denote an on-going state. That's the usual grammatical function of the present tense.
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Yes, I know. My sentence was meant to imply I disapprove of his behaviour. An implication is when the meaning of your sentence is not explicitly stated.
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> Implying that I was not also making implications
Some years ago, one of the US intelligence agencies announced that they were working on a program that could detect sarcasm on the internet. If they succeed in this feat of super-human AI, it really needs to be made available to the general public.
Some years ago, one of the US intelligence agencies announced that they were working on a program that could detect sarcasm on the internet. If they succeed in this feat of super-human AI, it really needs to be made available to the general public.
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My worst years of womanizing are mostly behind me. I spent about a year doing a walking-tour of Europe during '12, in addition to studying abroad in '13-14, spent most of that time in Iberia, Italy and Greece and got up to a fair amount of romantic shenanigans, ending up in six simultaneous relationships of varying intensity and commitment across the continent. (A tip: don't use social media when you're trying to pull that off) Now that I've been firmly entrenched in academia for two years now, I've cooled my heels. American women are ruthlessly boring and largely insufferable -- especially the puritan variety in New England and New York, so there's far fewer adventures to be had.
All said, it's really not worth moral grandstanding over. The function of those explanations were a warning -- I do genuinely feel a bit of melancholia about the path of certain relationships I've had (not regret I should clarify) and thought I'd warn people who were falling into a similar trap. Who better to explain than the one who lays it?
All said, it's really not worth moral grandstanding over. The function of those explanations were a warning -- I do genuinely feel a bit of melancholia about the path of certain relationships I've had (not regret I should clarify) and thought I'd warn people who were falling into a similar trap. Who better to explain than the one who lays it?
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I wouldn't trust anybody in a relationship who has cheated in the past.
But that might be a case by case thing.
But that might be a case by case thing.
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Well things got exponentially worse.
She randomly and without any given reason unfriended me on FB, and is straight up cold/awful at work. She's super friendly with everyone else but I am straight up avoided. I am absolutely falling apart. I scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist on Friday and I told my managers at work that I need my schedule completely redone because just seeing a glimpse of her gives me a pit in my stomach and I end up with a mini-anxiety attack. This is so painful it's surreal, I just wanted my friend back and I ended up further down the shitter.
She randomly and without any given reason unfriended me on FB, and is straight up cold/awful at work. She's super friendly with everyone else but I am straight up avoided. I am absolutely falling apart. I scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist on Friday and I told my managers at work that I need my schedule completely redone because just seeing a glimpse of her gives me a pit in my stomach and I end up with a mini-anxiety attack. This is so painful it's surreal, I just wanted my friend back and I ended up further down the shitter.
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Shinji: "Sooner or later I'll be betrayed... And they'll leave me. Still... I want to meet them again, because I believe my feelings at that time were real."
Ryuko: "I'm gonna knock ya on your asses!"
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So last night me and my ex boyfriend chatted on facebook. Apparently he's gotten back together with the girl I hate. -_- Anyhow, I bluntly told that if she ditched you once that she's probably gonna do it again. Big mistake. I've tried apologizing to him for my comment last night, but ever since I made my comment he's been giving me the silent treatment so I don't know if he's mad at me or just busy. The only thing I do know is that he's seen my messages. Yes, I am jealous of them being back together. But, I have a bad feeling that once things don't work out for him again that he'll come crawling back to me again.
"Winds in the east, Mist coming in, Like something is brewing, About to begin. Can't put my finger on, What lies in store, But, I feel what's to happen, All happened before..." From Mary Poppins
"For Love and Justice, I'm the pretty sailor suited soldier, Sailor Moon! In the name of the Moon, I will punish you!" Sailor Moon
"Anta Baka?!" Asuka Langley Soryu
"We fall in love, our hearts may break, we lose sleep longing for someone, but that's how we know we're alive." Usagi Tsukino from the Sailor Moon S movie.
"I'm not a nerd, I'm a specialist!!" Sousuke Sagara from Full Metal Panic.
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"For Love and Justice, I'm the pretty sailor suited soldier, Sailor Moon! In the name of the Moon, I will punish you!" Sailor Moon
"Anta Baka?!" Asuka Langley Soryu
"We fall in love, our hearts may break, we lose sleep longing for someone, but that's how we know we're alive." Usagi Tsukino from the Sailor Moon S movie.
"I'm not a nerd, I'm a specialist!!" Sousuke Sagara from Full Metal Panic.
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My heart got broken and shattered into a million pieces by a guy I barely even knew. Though I made the huge mistakes of asking him to me boyfriend and telling him that I loved him too soon. Also, the Canadian guy broke up with me last week. I emotionally manipulated him and stayed with him for a year while I was still in love with my ex boyfriend from New Mexico. So, I guess that makes me a bitch for emotionally manipulating a guy, right? The guy in New Mexico is the one that I really do truly love with all my heart and soul. I already forgave him for lying and cheating on me with this cunt in Alaska 2 years ago. -_- He reminds me so much of Sousuke Sagara from Full Metal Panic especially the looks, his cluelessness, and being a military otaku. XD So, thoughts on what I should do?
"Winds in the east, Mist coming in, Like something is brewing, About to begin. Can't put my finger on, What lies in store, But, I feel what's to happen, All happened before..." From Mary Poppins
"For Love and Justice, I'm the pretty sailor suited soldier, Sailor Moon! In the name of the Moon, I will punish you!" Sailor Moon
"Anta Baka?!" Asuka Langley Soryu
"We fall in love, our hearts may break, we lose sleep longing for someone, but that's how we know we're alive." Usagi Tsukino from the Sailor Moon S movie.
"I'm not a nerd, I'm a specialist!!" Sousuke Sagara from Full Metal Panic.
"Trying to make sense of what a cat does is like trying to make sense of what Chuckman posts." - Nuke-kun
http://www.silvermillenniumfalcon.com
"For Love and Justice, I'm the pretty sailor suited soldier, Sailor Moon! In the name of the Moon, I will punish you!" Sailor Moon
"Anta Baka?!" Asuka Langley Soryu
"We fall in love, our hearts may break, we lose sleep longing for someone, but that's how we know we're alive." Usagi Tsukino from the Sailor Moon S movie.
"I'm not a nerd, I'm a specialist!!" Sousuke Sagara from Full Metal Panic.
"Trying to make sense of what a cat does is like trying to make sense of what Chuckman posts." - Nuke-kun
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