TheFriskyIan wrote:So now I've been all giddy and happy since Sunday and I don't think it's going to go away until the date (and then I believe I'm just gonna be more excited and stupidly happy).
Congrats man, I hope everything goes well on Tuesday
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TheFriskyIan wrote:So now I've been all giddy and happy since Sunday and I don't think it's going to go away until the date (and then I believe I'm just gonna be more excited and stupidly happy).
Reichu wrote:It’s all weird and phallic.
Cybermat47 wrote:So... finding the right person is probably the biggest priority in my life right now. Which, from what I've heard, is a major turn-off for most people, so yay me.
The thing is, I have no idea how to go about meeting that person, and absolutely no idea how to introduce myself to them, probably due to my Asperger's Syndrome.
There are dating sites, yes, but do they actually have any success?
I'm genuinely frightened that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.
Watching Evangelion doesn't help...
Cybermat47 wrote:I'm genuinely frightened that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.
silvermoonlight wrote:The best piece of advice I can give you or anyone else in this position is forget dating websites and go to places you enjoy going to and meet people with common interests. I know a lots of people who have met the love of there lives at a convention, seminars or workshops where they were going because it was something they were really interested in.
Reichu wrote:It’s all weird and phallic.
Princess Asuka wrote:Is it normal to regret losing your virginity? Cause I regret it. The guy I lost it too was always horny all the time and he didn't really love me at all. He had condoms, but we didn't use them. It was just a quick penetration and that was it. This guy was an asshole. He told me that if I had gotten pregnant that he wanted me to get an abortion cause he didn't wanna have a kid with our disabilities. He also said that if we did do long distance that he wanted me to be ok with him sleeping with other girls while still being with me. He dumped me on our two month anniversary. After which I became very depressed and felt suicidal and I was hospitalized for a few days. And somehow I ended up gaining a lot of weight and got diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome. I lost my virginity cause I thought I'd never get another chance to do it, but the truth is sex isn't all that great and it didn't help that I was tense and nervous and that he told me you failed before we did it. And he tried to convince me that all my real life friends were bad people. The lesson I learned is just because he's cute, doesn't mean he's Prince Charming.
silvermoonlight wrote:I'm sorry you went though that because that sounds really awful and the guy sounds like a huge manipulator because that's what people like that do they try to separate you from your family and friends and tell you that everything you do is wrong and its all your fault when its not and there the nasty party and the whole deal with him sleeping with other people due to long distance is another element of that as it about creating in uneven playing field so the victim is not in control. I feel the same way regarding my virginity as in my early teens I had a this creepy guy none stop badger me until I slept with him and he didn't bother with condoms ether and he caused me intense pain became he was ramming so hard I had to say no and stop the whole thing half way through because I was in agony. I get that your first time is not not great for ether gender but no one should ever pressure you this way and if they do walk away and never ever give in to them regardless of there gender.
Princess Asuka wrote:Thank you, I'm just happy that he's gone and I'll never see him again. Before this guy dated me he dated a friend of mine. He slept with her, but even though he used condoms with her she later told me that he used to have sex with her while she was sleeping. And this guy even gave her a promise ring that looks exactly like Usagi's ring from Sailor Stars just to make me jealous. But, she said after she left him she gave back all his gifts and took back everything that she had given him. Their relationship ended cause she cheated on him with his best friend. When he was flirting with me he was all like she's a bad person, she's crazy, you shouldn't be friends with her, she can't cook from scratch, etc. He even told me to block her from facebook for awhile. Just because he bought me gifts doesn't make him a good person. Even though I did get my Sailor Moon lanyard he gave me autographed, I kept the necklace, Sailor Moon part 2 on bluray, and he gave me a bluray. Surprisingly I have no memories attached the gifts he gave me. The two months I was with him were Hell. He moved to Texas and he cut all contact with me after I was hospitalized. Cause whenever we fought he'd always block my phone number. But, I bet he's probably already found some other girl to manipulate.
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