xanderkh wrote:................. Do you have a harem Chuckman?

It's better to have sex with one other person at a time. Trying to direct your attention at two people as actually distracting and a borderline uncomfortable.

@Bags, you need to dream a little bigger, darling. Always be the alpha.

Bagheera wrote:Your friends will give you shit, but who's fucking Mari and Asuka? Damn right.

Why would you want be a beta, and why in a relationship with a sociopathic Britbong and a German?

Tankred wrote:Why would you want be a beta, and why in a relationship with a sociopathic Britbong and a German.

Okay, have you seen Asuka and Mari? If you don't want them you need to get off the internet and join the rest of us in real life, because my gods man, they're hot as hell.

Also, being alpha is lame. It's far more interesting when your partners have their own agendas.

Bagheera wrote:Also, being alpha is lame. It's far more interesting when your partners have their own agendas.

Someone has clearly never heard of topping from the bottom.

Uh....this thread got weird really quick. Par for the course I guess.

Chuckman wrote:Someone has clearly never heard of topping from the bottom.

Someone has clearly never heard of "two hot chicks with their own agendas." Seriously, Chuck, which is hotter: Asuka doing what she wants, with you following along, or a brainless Asuka as your minion? If you vote for the latter you aren't half the man I assumed you to be. Topping from the bottom is obviously a thing, but it's only useful if your partner is worthy. If she isn't you're just wasting your time.

So, are MariAsu worthy? Indubitably. Are they topping from the bottom? Who cares, man? When your partners are insanely hot you just roll with it and do whatever.

Dude it's almost insulting for you to brand all submissives as minions.

Time for Chuckman to deliver a powerful teaching:

Let me tell you why Fifty Shades of Grey exploded in popularity. It's not because of the physical acts described in the book and it's not because the readership has internalized the patriarchy and idealized victimhood and abusive relationships.

It's because the readership enjoys a relief valve, which is the basis for submission in real life both generally and in BDSM practices. It's powerful people who exert a lot of control and decision making in their lives that enjoy submission the most. It allows people a complete release from that stress for a time. To just be taken care of for a while, instead of relentlessly organizing and deciding.

Now there's a lot of confusion here, because abusive behavior in relationships comes from a sense of weakness, not power, and sex-negative feminism tends to confuse "dominant partner" with "abusive partner" because fear is itself the dominant factor in fourth wave feminist ideology, as is clear to any and all Chuckmen who see the secret heart of things. True dominance is an act of caring, compassion, and support. It's all about the sub. The sub sets the tone and boundaries and controls by yielding.

There are degrees of dom/sub lifestyle ranging from occasional play in the bedroom to perpetual nude slavery or pet play. Based on her character I feel like Asuka would tend towards the lower/middle side of that spectrum and get a great deal of fulfillment out of it. That's why she kept pushing Shinji to take the initiative, she wants someone whose arms she can fall into for support when she's tired of being peerless, to be valued and pampered.

Do you not see?

Is this really the best article to be talking about this?

This thread was finished a long time ago.

So hey... what the hell does any of this have to do with kuroRei?

aww... Sachi ninja'd me.